Once upon a time, building trust at work was simple. You turned up, made eye contact, remembered someone’s birthday, nodded sympathetically at the printer and occasionally bought doughnuts. Trust grew through shared oxygen and shared irritation. You did not need an operating model, you just needed a desk and a kettle.
Then remote work arrived and suddenly trust had to be structured. Documented. Communicated through emojis. The modern equivalent of ‘I value you as a colleague’ is now ‘👍 Seen. Will revert.‘ We have evolved.
Remote work undeniably made us more efficient, fewer commutes, fewer irrelevant conversations, and meetings that end because the calendar says so, not because someone finally stands up. Productivity soared, at least individually, but team trust the glue that stops projects from wobbling like an unsecured IKEA wardrobe has needed new forms of attention.
The problem is not capability. It is context. In the office, misunderstanding was softened by the fact we existed in the same physical world. ‘Oh, I see, you’re not ignoring me, you’re just tired, caffeinated and trapped between spreadsheets.‘ Online, silence feels personal, ambiguity feels intentional and ‘seen at 09:32, no reply’ becomes a psychological thriller.
Without the natural chemistry of proximity, trust cannot accidentally happen anymore by an unseen form of osmosis, it must be engineered. This sounds cold until you realise it simply means we need to communicate better:
- Tell people what we are doing.
- Follow through when we say we will.
- Avoid sending cryptic three-word Teams, Slack or other messages that sound like legal threats.
Fundamentally the importance is never greater than to say what we think, do what we say and be what we do.
The good news is we are adapting, that uncanny human species, something do so well. Hybrid cultures are beginning to understand the balance:
- Face-to-face for bonding
- Remote for efficiency
- Structure for sanity
It turns out trust is still human work, it is just changed format.
So here’s the gentle leadership truth. Remote work is not eroding trust. It exposed how much of it was previously unspoken. In this new world, trust is not built through hallway nods, it is built through clarity, consistency and the occasional well-timed GIF.
We can still build deeply connected, resilient teams, we just need to stop assuming trust happens by accident and start treating it as part of the work. Critically getting teams together when the opportunity arises. There is nothing better to improve commitment than face to face social interaction. That commitment translates into direct project and performance wins. If you need further evidence you need to understand the impact of ‘Virtual Distance‘ and how to harness its superpowers and not fall foul of its dark side. Even better Dr. Lojeski is the author of two books that tell the whole story:
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Posted on November 23, 2025
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